Anonymous asked: i've never lost my virginity and i'm 18 years old... how do you seduce guys and what makes you know they're the one?
Baby, relax! Seduction is silly. I say, just be yourself. I think that’s the only way you’ll know for sure that whoever may come your way is the ‘one’. I don’t even know. My relationship history is ridiculous and I used to be a slut, so perhaps I’m not the right person to ask. Love and light.
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The ‘Na’ people of China are the only society at present lacking any concept of marriage. Instead they live in random groups with open sexual relationships.
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In Jungian psychology, the anima refers to personality traits regarded as feminine that are often repressed into the unconscious of males while the animus refers to traits regarded as masculine that are often repressed into the unconsciousness of females.
Although suppressed from conscious awareness, the anima/animus influences our behaviour in powerful ways. In most individuals, it is projected onto people of the opposite sex and accounts for the experience of falling in love with someone we hardly know. As the unconscious pole of the self, the counter-ego represented by the anima/animus can also be a guide to one’s own unconscious realm. It is often experienced as the guiding female (if you’re male) or male (if you’re female) presence in dreams.
‘The Shadow’
In Carl Jung’s personality theory the ego represents the individual’s sense of personal self. The sense of personal identity is purchased, however, at the expense of certain tendencies that are rejected as ‘not-self’. According to Jung, these rejected traits come together as a kind of unconscious ‘counter-ego’ which he termed the shadow.
We may become unduly anxious or irritated when in an environment or around a person that in some way reminds us of repressed aspects of ourself. If a person has rejected his or her own sex drive, for example, that person may feel irrational fear or anger around an overtly sexual individual. The shadow may appear as a person in one’s dreams, usually as an individual of the same sex.
Of all the archetypes, the shadow is the most powerful and potentially the most dangerous. It represents everything about ourselves that we fear
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Anonymous asked: what's it like having a famous boyfriend?
It’s normal. He’s not celebrity status or anything. I’ve been missing him during his tour though.. and I want to tell the groupies to fuck off.
Anonymous asked: How do I break up with my boyfriend without just saying, "It's over" ?? :I
I have no idea! The only real break up I’ve had to deal with resulted in a relapsed alcoholic and a couple of domestics.. So I don’t think I’m the one to ask. Sending all my love and good vibes your way. <3
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Anonymous asked: are you more shy or outgoing in person? can you easily converse with anyone including perfect strangers?
I wouldn’t have a clue hey. I used to be far more of an introvert, but I think work has taught me how to easily converse with anyone without having to be so awkward about it anymore.. But sometimes, I think I just choose to be shy as a means to ignore a situation I don’t care to be in. Or I’ll choose to be outgoing because I’m really excited about life or love or something incredibly silly. So it depends.. Peace!
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“While living on the planet Earth, our role is to foster sacred relationships with nature spirits and to devote ourselves to assist in their work by directing the light of creation, which is pure love, into their projects. Consciously working with these beings can prepare the way for smoother planetary transitions and more graceful interactions with nature – sometimes averting the natural disasters that are seen as part of the cleansing process that the planet goes through. We can help by heightening our awareness of planetary needs, and protecting and nurturing the environment. We can also assist by meditating in nature; decrees, invocations and other sound vibrations; attaining open-hearted visual contact; directing healing energy into these kingdoms; and using many other modalities. My favorite method of communing is to sit in the woods by the edge of a stream and lean against a tree for hours with my eyes open and my consciousness expanding as I gradually become one with the ground, water, air, and sunlight. Over time, not only do the animals accept me as an unthreatening part of their world, but the nature spirits become visible and openly go about their work.” - Craig Junjulas
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Anonymous asked: what 'type' do you fall for?
The crazy type with a cheeky grin. I’m not fussed about details, as long as I’m forever intrigued by them.